LLIBook

Here's an extract from the book titled as above:

  • When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
  • Resist giving advice concerning matrimony, finances, or hairstyles.
  • Have impeccable manners.
  • Never pay for work before it's completed.
  • Remember that a successful marriage depends on two things: (1) finding the right person and (2) being the right person,
  • See problems as opportunities for growth and self-mastery.
  • Don't believe people when they ask you to be honest with them.
  • Never buy a house without a fireplace.
  • Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
  • Once in your life own a convertible.
  • Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
  • Ask for a raise when you feel you have earned it.
  • If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
  • Return al the things you borrow.
  • Teach some kind of class.
  • Be a student in some kind of class.
  • Keep secrets.
  • Take lots of snapshots.
  • Never refuse homemade brownies.
  • Don't postpone joy.
  • Write "thank you" notes promptly.
  • Avoid overexposure to the sun.
  • Vote.
  • Surprise loved ones with little unexpected gifts.
  • Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
  • Never mention being on a diet.
  • Make the best of bad situations.
  • Always accept an outstretched hand.
  • Live so that when your children think of fairness, caring and integrity, they think of you.
  • Admit your mistakes.
  • Ask someone to pick up your mail and daily paper when you're out of town. Those are the first two things potential burglars look for.
  • Use your wit to amuse, not abuse.
  • Remember that all news is biased.
  • Take a photography course.
  • Let people pull in front of you when you're stopped in traffic.
  • Support a high school band.
  • Demand excellence and be willing to pay for it.
  • Whistle.
  • Hug children after you discipline them.
  • Learn to make something beautiful with your hands.
  • Give to charity all the clothes you haven't worn during the past three years.
  • Never invest more in stock market than you can afford to lose.
  • Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come ninety percent of all your happiness or misery.
  • Make it a habit to do nice things for people who'll never find out.
  • Never use profanity.
  • Never argue with police officers and address them as "officer".
  • Learn to identify local wildflowers, birds and trees.
  • Keep fire extinguishers in your kitchen and car.
  • Put a lot of little marshmallows in your hot chocolate.
  • Learn CPR.
  • Resist the temptation to buy a boat.
  • Stop and read historical roadside markers.
  • Know how to change a tire.
  • Know how to tie a bow tie.
  • Respect your children's privacy. Knock before entering their rooms.
  • Wear audacious underwear under the most solemn business attire.
  • Visit Washington, D.C., and do the tourist bit.
  • When someone is relating an important event that's happened to them, don't try to top them with a story of your own. Let them have the stage.
  • Don't buy cheap tools. Craftsman tools from Sears are among the best.
  • When starting out, don't worry about not having enough money. Limited funds are a blessing, not a curse. Nothing encourages creative thinking in quite the same way.
  • Give yourself an hour to cool off before responding to someone who has provoked you. If it involves something really important, give yourself overnight.
  • When playing games with children, let them win.
  • Turn off the television at dinner time.
  • Learn to handle a pistol and rifle safely.
  • Skip one meal a week and give what you would have spent to a street person.
  • Pray not for things but for wisdom and courage.
  • Be tough-minded but tender-hearted.
  • Use seat belts.
  • have regular medical and dental checkups.
  • Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  • Take your dog to obedience school. You'll both learn a lot.
  • Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience, not the caller's.
  • Don't waste time grieving over past mistakes. Learn from them and move on.
  • Wave at children on school buses.
  • Tape record your parents' memories of how they met and their first years of marriage.
  • Show respect for others' time. Call whenever you're going to be more than ten minutes late for an appointment.
  • Hire people smarter than you.
  • Learn to show cheerfulness, even when you don't feel like it.
  • Learn to show enthusiasm, even when you don't feel like it.
  • Take good care of those you love.
  • Don't spread yourself too thin. Learn to say "no" politely and quickly.
  • Keep overhead low.
  • Keep expectations high.
  • Accept pain and disappointment as part of life.
  • Remember that winners do what losers don't want to do.
  • When you arrive at your job in the morning, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day.
  • Seek opportunity, not security. A boat in a harbour is safe, but in time its bottom will rot out.
  • Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
  • Pay attention to the details.
  • Be a self-starter.
  • Be loyal.
  • Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
  • Every once in a while take the scenic route.
  • Don't let your possessions possess you.
  • Wage war against littering.
  • Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them "Someone who thinks you're terrific."
  • Answer your phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
  • Every person that you meet knows something you don't; learn something from them.
  • Tape record your parents' laughter.
  • Buy cars that have air bags.
  • Don't undertip the waiter just because the food is bad; he didn't cook it.
  • Change the car's oil and filter every three thousand miles regardless of what the owner's manual recommends.
  • Conduct family fire drills. Be sure everyone knows what to do in case the house catches fire.
  • Become someone's hero.
  • Marry only for love.
  • Count your blessings.
  • Call your mother.

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